After over a year a failed attempts to make home-made 100%whole wheat bread, I am thrilled to announce that I finally made a perfect loaf yesterday.
Problem 1: I don't have a grinder and had used a coffee grinder and blender to mill my berries. The result of the blend was a very course flour which was too heavy for making good bread.
Solved: A friend with a grinder graciously milled the berries for me and that resulted in a fine, soft flour.
Problem 2: I was using red wheat berries which are heavier and more dense than white wheat.
Solved: Switched to white wheat which made my bread more moist and it rose better.
Problem 3: The yeast I was using was a regular baking yeast I bought in bulk. It simply did not have the strength to get the bread to a good rise.
Solved: I switched to SAF (a brand name) yeast that has more active cultures. Instead of taking all day to rise, my bread rose in 20 minutes and baked beautifully!
Problem 4: I worked with several recipes and formulas to come up with a moist, tasty loaf of bread, some were dry and crumbles, some were too heavy, others were simply bland in flavor.
Solved: I found a recipe that worked and tasted phenomenal.
Problem 5: Kneading is vital to bring out gluten and softness in wheat bread. I found over-kneading caused me to add too much flour, making a hard loaf, while under-kneading made a dry unconnected loaf.
Solved: 10 minutes kneading in my Kitchen-Aid mix-master is the perfect amount.

Rebecca’s Honey Sweetened Whole Wheat Bread
1 1/4 cups warm water (110-120 degrees)
1/4 cup honey
1/4 cup oil
1 5/8 cups whole wheat flour (freshly ground)
1T vital wheat gluten (optional)
1 T saf instant yeast
1/2 T salt
1 egg
5-6 cup whole wheat flour
1. In an electric mixer with a dough hook, combine water, oil, honey, the initial 1 5/8 cups flour, vital wheat gluten (opt), yeast, and salt.
2. Mix until fully combined, and then let it sit for 10 minutes.
3. After 10 minutes, it should have risen a little, so mix the mixture again and then add in the egg and additional 6 cups flour (more or less) and mix until the dough is not sticky (tacky) and all the flour is mixed in well.
4. Knead the dough for 10 minutes, and the dough, at this point, should look smooth
5. Put in well greased pan and then let dough rise until fully raised.
7. Put bread into a COLD oven (not preheated), and turn on the oven to 350 degrees and bake for 35 minutes.
8. When it comes out, you can put butter on the top of it.